Cu cat incercam mai mult sa ne regasim pe noi insine cu atat descoperim cu adevarat cine suntem.Fie ne ingrozim, fie suntem speriati, bucurosi sau nedumeriti, ceea ce descoperim de cele mai multe ori in adancul constiintei noastre ne face sa ne dorim sa mergem mai departe cu aceasta descoperire. Mi s-a intamplat zilele trecute sa descopar o carte impresionanta.Titlul suna promitator insa nu stiam ce am sa gasesc prin paginile ei. “Un Pamant nou .Trezirea constiintei umane” Eckhart Tolle. Simteam ca trebuie sa gasesc ceva nou care sa ma ajute sa merg mai departe pe drumul pe care l-am pornit deja, acela al descoperiri spiritualitatii mele.M-am abatut in ultima vreme de la acest drum si mi-am dat seama ca trebuie sa pornesc din nou.La fel ca si acel alpinist care incearca sa se catere pe munte si in urcusul lui tot cade insa nu renunta,el stie ca intr-un final o sa ajunga in varf si atunci o sa fie cel mai fericit.Va invit si pe voi sa cititi aceasta carte minunata.Eu sunt abia la inceput insa am acel sentiment ca in final o sa ajung la un raspuns care ma va aduce mai aproape de drumul meu.

“Într-o lume tot mai însetată de cunoaştere spirituală, într-un secol în care căutarea de sine a îmbrăcat forme absolut inedite, iar barierele dintre religii par a începe să cadă datorită înţelegerii faptului că acelaşi unic adevăr le-a fundamentat pe toate, îndrumătorii spirituali sunt cu atât mai necesari şi bine-veniţi. Fie că tălmăcesc mesajul iluminaţilor care au trăit cu secole în urmă, fie că îşi expun propria viziune asupra căilor ce trebuie urmate în lumea modernă, aportul lor la limpezirea înţelegerii aspectelor evoluţiei este unul esenţial.”
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“Scopul principal al acestei carti nu este acela de a adauga noi informatii sau credinte mintii voastre si nici acela de a incerca sa va convinga de ceva anume, ci de a infaptui o schimbare in constiinta voastra”

It is said that “behind every successful man is a strong women.”In most of the countries is true but there are places in this world that being a women is a cruel fate.Many women continue to have second-class status in many parts of the world, with little access to healthcare, education, or basic freedoms, and most of us have no idea of what is happening out there.

In the Americas the worst place is HAITI.

In the slums around Port-au-Prince, organized gang rape is a fact of life for many Haitian women. Nearly half the young women and girls in the capital’s Cite Soleil shantytown have been raped or sexually assaulted, according to a 2006 U.N. report. Nongovernmental organizations say the problem isn’t taken seriously because many Haitians, including members of the police and judicial system, consider nonconsensual sex as rape only if the victim was a virgin. In fact, rape wasn’t even categorized as a criminal offense until 2005. In addition, if a husband finds his wife engaging in adultery in his home, the criminal code excuses him if he kills her; if a wife kills her husband under the same circumstances, she isn’t excused.74670243.QKeOZFCJ

In the Middle East, in YEMEN early marriage is commonplace , with 48 percent of girls married by the time they are 18 and some brides as young as 12. The result: poor health for mothers and babies. One in 39 women die during pregnancy or childbirth, and 1 in 10 children doesn’t make it to a fifth birthday. Yemeni women live particularly restricted lives; for example, getting a passport and traveling abroad requires a husband’s or father’s permission.3

In Africa, in SIERRA LEONE one in 8 women dies during pregnancy or childbirth, and women have an abysmal life expectancy of just 43 years, one of the lowest in the world. Girls can expect to receive only six years of schooling. On top of it all, the horrors of Sierra Leone’s decade-long civil war, in which perhaps a third of the country’s women and girls suffered sexual violence, haunt women today. Widows struggle to get by, survivors of wartime rape face stigma and discrimination, and men continue to assault women with impunity.panos_sierraleone_amputee
In SOUTH ASIA the worst place is NEPAL Women born in the late 1970s married at a median age of 16. And motherhood is particularly dangerous. Nepal is the “deadliest place in the world to give birth outside Afghanistan and a clutch of countries in sub-Saharan Africa,”. That’s because only about 1 in 5 births is attended by trained health personnel. But the government is taking steps to improve women’s lives: A quota system for women and minorities resulted in a third of the Constituent Assembly seats going to women in the April elections.npsoc_women0001
In Europe MOLDOVA has the worst conditions for women.Moldova is a major source country for women trafficked into prostitution. In a country whose per capita income (adjusted for purchasing power) is in the same league as India and Nicaragua, young women and girls often fall for recruiters’ promises of well-paying jobs abroad, only to be forced to work for pimps in places such as Russia, Turkey, and the United Arab Emirates. Meanwhile, the government’s efforts to prevent trafficking and protect victims have been weak; some government officials and police officers have even been complicit in trafficking. But things might be looking up: The first female prime minister took office this year.
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http://www.foreignpolicy.com

So many things happened lately in my life that i really don’t know how to react on them. I am happy, proud, sad and lonely at the same time.I receive a pretty nice quote yesterday about the things and people that are coming into our life

“People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.”

I finnaly understood some things that were very obvious but that i really didn’t want to see or to think about until now. An ANGEL that i kind of lost told these things to me but i really could not imagine that this could possible.Now i understand….People did came into my life for a BIG REASON, OR FOR A SEASON, not for a lifetime yet but finnaly it will come that to.The most things that i am sorry for are that i missed some things, some feelings and some lessons.
It’s good that in the end i realized what a person means in one’s life.It can be very painful but very good in the same time being able to understand the things that are happening because of the people near you. I’ve learned that i have REAL FRIENDS for a lifetime,that there are people that i love but that were in my life for ONE REASON, OR FOR A SPECIAL SEASON, and the most important thing that for which I fell gratitude is that EACH OF THEM ARE GOING TO BE IN MY LIFE FOR EVER (for a lifetime).
And a small word for one ANGEL: I love you my friend and i will never forget what you taught me.
Thank you all my friends.You are a good reason to wake up every morning.

A great connection with PEACE. Feeling love, relaxing and become more spiritual. ENJOY

Starting from a dream that a person had it turned into a BIG PROJECT. Sending a postcard for World peace it’s one of the most beautiful actions i have seen. Is not only me who thinks this way.Take a look at all the postcards and all the messages written on them and everybody will see that around the world everybody wishes for a WORLD OF PEACE.

http://postcardworldpeace.blogspot.com/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4dtaPjhKO0

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I was just thinking lately of new things that i can   do.Even though nowadays our time is filled with work and many others activities i strongly believe we can make time for some of the beautiful things that happen around us. I want to make something new and for a couple of days i was just searching around the things that may change my day the moment read or listen to it.

So i decided to write everyday about the “thing” that brings a smile on my face. Is hard to find a thing everyday but it’s a challenge that i want to take. Is like a part of a meditation. A part of my everyday life.

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I think this is a NEW START. I don’t know why and how but things changed radically lately. People and feelings came into my life, gave me a new sense, showed me a new path and made me realise how to enjoy NOW and ME.

A book, a quote, a person can really change everything in ones life.It’s all about letting everything come into your life.It’s all about YOU. That is what an angel thought me, and is everything that counts now.I couldn’t ask for more.

GRATITUDE, HAPPINESS, BLISS and LOVE is all i want to feel now.It’s all coming to me now.

I think we should all try and search for that love for ourselves no matter how hard it is.The only thing that counts is that NOW we can enjoy being  ourselves and being happy with everything we do.

“You create your own universe as you go along” Winston Churchill

So let’s enjoy this new path.I am doing my best.

“Dimineata m-am sculat cu gandul ca fiecare om are haosul sau personal. Si ca in raporturile cu acest haos, exista trei faze. In prima, iti ignori haosul. In a doua, ratacesti prin el. In a treia, incerci, daca mai ai timp, sa pui putina ordine. Cam asta as vrea sa fac aici” O Paler

Cred ca viata noastra e un sir de intamplari care chiar daca vrem sau nu isi au rostul.Uneori ne bucuram de succese, alteori de esecuri, uneori iubim, alteori suferim, ne gandim DE CE ? si parca totul capata sens sau se naruie. Am trecut in ultima vreme printr-o multime de astfel de situatii si am ajuns la concluzia ca oricat as incerca sa schimb ceva nu pot.Fie ca nu imi sta in putere fie ca am realizat ca nu merita. Totul se intampla cu un motiv si fie ca avem succese sau esecuri pana la urma ne dam seama ca lucrurile sunt trecatoare si ca nu merita osteneala de a suferi.Trebuie sa invatam din tot ce s-a intamplat si sa ne dam seama in final ca tot ceea ce conteaza e ca a fost frumos…si de cele mai multe ori se intampla sa fie foarte frumos.

… ma pot uita, oare, in urma, fara teama ca am ratat tocmai ceea ce n-as fi vrut sa ratez? Sau am dorit mai mult decat se cuvenea?

Stim oare ce e Spiritualitatea? Ma intreb in utima vreme cat de mult stiu despre spiritualitate, o regasesc in mine sau traiesc intr-un haos din care mi-e din ce in ce mai greu sa ies. Am pus la cale cu Cori, colega si prietena mea de la PATRIR un plan in care sa vedem cum stim noi tinerii sa definim spiritualitatea si mai ales cum o gasim si cum invatatm din ea? Cum ne ajuta? SPIRITUALITATE? In ce fel ne influenteaza?

Pana acum spiritualitatea se rezuma doar la a fi religioasa si a te ruga.In unele cazuri uiti sa te mai gandesti la tine si de dragul religiei uiti de ceea ce vrei cu adevarat. Totusi sunt multe lucruri care definesc spiritualitatea si cred ca ar fi interesant sa invatam putin din toate.

Pentru asta putem incepe cu sfatul oracolului din Delhi ” Cunoaste-te pe tine insuti!!”

Zilele trecute prietena mea cea mai buna imi povestise despre o carte care tocmai o citise si mi-o recomandase cu placere.”Maini inzestrate” a doctorului Ben Carson, este pot sa spun una dintre cele mai inspirante carti pe care le-am citit in umila mea existenta. THINK BIG, e conceptul lui folosit la final si cred ca ofera un model super de a vedea ce inseamna sa-ti descoperi talentul, sa-ti organizezi timpul si sa ai incredere in fortele proprii.E o carte pe care o recomand din suflet si ma bucur ca am avut si eu ocazia sa o citesc.

THINK BIG is Dr. Ben Carson’s philosophy which promotes outstanding academic achievement and dedication to helping others.

T is for Talent/time: Recognize them as gifts.

H Hope for good things and be honest.

I Insight from people and good books.

N Be nice to all people.

K Knowledge: Recognize it as the key to living.

B Books: Read them actively.

I In-depth learning skills: Develop them.

G Dr. Carson’s “G” is for God. Everyone has their own beliefs. When you THINK BIG, what does the “G” stand for in your life?